I just saw this on my FB feed and to be honest, I think it’s pretty accurate. To the point of being ‘way to accurate.’ For as long as I can remember I have always tended to see my self as a lone wolf, and my brother constantly tells me, ‘you’re too sensitive.’ :)

http://earthweareone.com/native-american-zodiac-signs-their-meaning/

Wolf: Feb 19 – Mar 20

Deeply emotional, and wholly passionate, the Wolf is the lover of the zodiac in both the physical and philosophical sense of the word. The Wolf understands that all we need is love, and is fully capable of providing it.

Juxtaposed with his/her fierce independence – this Native American animal symbol is a bit of a contradiction in terms. Needing his/her freedom, yet still being quite gentle and compassionate – we get the picture of the “lone wolf” with this sign.

In a nurturing environment the Wolf is intensely passionate, generous, deeply affectionate, and gentle. Left to his/her own devices the Wolf can become impractical, recalcitrant, obsessive, and vindictive.

I’m in JB right now, having got here yesterday at about 2pm. I’m about 60% happy to be here at this apartment, and about 40 percent not sure if I picked the right place.

The apartment is nice, I’ve got a master bedroom and am sharing the 3 bdrm with one other guy. He’s in med school and about 25 years old. Seems like a nice guy. I’ve got a pretty good view of some hills out my window and there is a communal balcony that is nice to sit on.

The forty percent is because I think I’m pretty far from everything. When I say pretty far, I am not speaking from experience since I haven’t really left the apartment since I arrived, I am mostly just speaking from what I’ve been told. Once I post this entry I’m going to head out and get some supplies, so I’ll find out for myself how difficult it is to move around here.

Oh, and happy birthday to me. :)

 

I’ve been in KL now for two nights, having left Brunei for greener pastures. I’m glad that I went to Brunei but only for the reason that I went. At least now I have a mental image of the country and can visualize it if it is brought up in a conversation.

So now the tough problem is where to go to next. I was nearly positive that I would be going to JB on the 25th, but now I’m not so sure. After talking to a friend here, he suggested that I’d enjoy Langkawi better. He told me it’s a beach community and is cheaper to live there than JB. He added that JB doesn’t really have anything to do.

Now I’m stuck between the two, about seventy-five percent sure that I will go to JB and twenty-five percent on Langkawi. I keep going to Airbnb.com to look at the long term rentals to each and, at least on airbnb, JB seems better. I just haven’t been able to ‘pull the trigger’ and actually commit to renting a place there.

 

So I have a little bit of a problem. Where do I go from here? I’m in Brunei right now and tomorrow morning I head to Kuala Lumpur. That is about as far as I’ve gotten so far. The problem that I’m having is what/where do I go and for how long. Although I don’t expect any replies, I’ll layout my arguments for the few places I have in mind. Feel free to comment if you feel like it.

My first thought was to go to Johur Bahru (JB) in Malaysia. This city wasn’t really on my list of places to go. I guess the spot is big for expats and people who want to be close to Singapore but pay less in rents.

I really have no feelings about JB except that it would be nice to hang out with Nicole so I put it higher on the list. Some of the other benefits would be that I want to put down some roots so I’d stay there probably at least for a few months. The roots may be shallow, but I was kind of getting excited about not living out of my backpack. I was also thinking that I could start exercising again since the apartment I was going to rent had a gym and pool and looks like it would be a perfect place to start running.

Another option that I’ve been thinking about is to head to Taiwan. It has been my plan all along to go to Taiwan as I make my way back to the US. My hesitation here though is that I feel that if I leave Malaysia now that I will never come back and I have really been enjoying myself here. In fact I could see myself living in Malaysia for years. Nearly everyone that I’ve met has told me that Taiwan is great, and since it has a 90-day visa I could probably stretch my time out there for as long as I want.

The last option is to find somewhere else in Malaysia to hang out for a month or two until I actually know what I want to do. The downside to this is, where?

So there you have it, my problem of deciding where to go and what to do. My mind is telling me to stay with JB and just not tell Nicole that I was there. Any suggestions?

Yesterday I spent my day walking around the downtown part of Bandar Seri Begawan. It’s a small area that is maybe twenty square blocks filled with some restaurants, government buildings, and shops. The downtown area is next to a river and on the other side of the river is a very large area of river houses, houses on stilts.

Mosque in Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei
Mosque in Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei
River taxis hanging under a bridge. Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei
River taxis hanging under a bridge. Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei
House on the river village, Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei
House on the river village, Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei

After wandering around for a little while I decided that I wanted to walk along the river. As I was making my way along the river walk, I hear, “Yoo-hoo.” I mean who says that? Turns out it was a boat taxi driver, and he didn’t stop at “Yoo-hoo” either. He actually said enough stupid things that got me laughing. Is normal job was to taxi people from the bank of the downtown area to the river village on the other side and back. As you can imagine, he also just happens to give tourist tours of the area. The thing was, was that I was getting bored and the thought of riding in a boat for about an hour sounded like fun, so I decided to do it.

The Sultan of Brunei's front gate. Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei
The Sultan of Brunei’s front gate. Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei

There wasn’t really much to tell about the boat tour except that it was nice to be on the water. The scenery really wasn’t that great and although I took a lot of photos, I don’t think any really turned out.

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Just a funny photo of an ostrich

 

This morning I hired a driver to give me a tour of the rest of the area. I wasn’t sure what else there was to see but since I’m only here for three days I felt that I should see as much as possible. I left for the tour at 10.

Storks and house on the river bank, Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei
Storks and house on the river bank, Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei
Finally, some culture. Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei
Finally, some culture. Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei
Man walking through mosque. Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei
Man walking through mosque. Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei

 

 

Another mosque, Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei
Another mosque, Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei

Most of the tour really wasn’t that great. The driver took me downtown to show me all the things that I’d done yesterday. I can’t blame him but earlier I mentioned that I had been downtown all day, so he knew that I had been there. It ended up him just driving through downtown and not stopping anywhere.  The next stop was a very large mosque and then on to the sultans palace (which you can only see the driveway). After taking photos he took me to a botanical garden. I enjoyed this stop the most. It had all different plants from around the world, cactus from Mexico and the US, trees from Australia, and many more.  There was even a very small zoo there as well. The zoo had ostriches, peacocks, indigenous deer, some goats, and another bird that I don’t know what it was.

After the botanical gardens, we headed to another mosque and then he tried to show me the mall. I have no desire to see a mall and told him to skip it. Then he took me back to the hotel.

I’ve been in Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei for the last two nights. First arriving on a ferry from KK on Wednesday. I didn’t get any sleep the night before I left so I spent the whole ferry ride snoozing away.  The ride to get here was uneventful and don’t know if I should include anything of the experience in this entry.

My impression of Brunei so far is mixed. It’s clean, and there is a strong sense of order everywhere you go. Which, I might add is kind of nice…at first. Not long after getting here I started to notice many things that raised an eyebrow. The first being that tobacco is illegal, well not exactly illegal, but the way it was explained to me was that I should hide my cigarette if I saw a policeman. You can’t buy cigarettes here, but you can smoke if you aren’t visible in public—I think that’s how it is, but honestly I can’t get a straight answer, some say it’s illegal, some say it is okay to smoke in certain areas.

Alcohol is illegal. Not really that big of deal to me. I can take or leave alcohol and since Brunei is a Muslim country I would expect them to be strict in regards to alcohol.

Littering is illegal. You can kind of expect that of most countries, but here you can get a fine of over 1000 Brunei Dollars, about $800. That’s a pretty steep fine when you think about it.

I was talking to some of the smokers around the hotel and they told me that they don’t have any fun here, that they need to go to Malaysia if they want to enjoy themselves. I’ve been here for about a day and a half and I’m already feeling this too.